Avoiding Enabling Behaviors
Certain behaviors make a loved one’s addiction problem worse. This is enabling. What does it mean to enable someone with an alcohol dependency? You might assume what you’re doing is completely harmless. Afterall, they’re the ones with the problem, not you. Right?
Unfortunately, addiction doesn’t only affect whoever is using. Often, it takes a negative toll on family members as well. Overall, you might not realize you’re enabling when you do things such as:
- Cover for them if they can’t meet obligations
- Not letting them face the consequences of their actions
- Use with them
- Make excuses for their actions
- Ignore the problem
Many people enable others. It’s an easy trap. When you see a loved one drowning in addiction, your natural reaction is to help.
However, enabling only allows the addiction to continue. It can get worse, leading to severe and irreversible health and legal problems.
How to Help an Alcoholic
Addiction changes families, and therefore, to help a person with the addiction, you need to change too. You can show them support while refraining from supporting their disease. Above all, you should let your loved one know you’ll be with them through every step of recovery.
Furthermore, when a loved one admits they need help, just knowing they have a strong support network increases their chances of lasting recovery. Thus, a good rehab facility encourages family involvement, so if you really want to help your loved one, involve yourself in their recovery. It won’t be easy. However, it’s well worth it.
You Can Achieve Sobriety
At Steps to Recovery, your lifelong sobriety is our priority. Our qualified professionals work hard to heal the entire family. Additionally, we provide education so family members know how to offer healthy support throughout recovery
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Don’t let addiction take over your life. With our help, you can overcome your addiction and become healthy again. Take that first, important step by calling us today at 267.719.8528.